Sisterhood or Friendship


I wrote my first one nearly two years ago. And thought I would write a more updated version. Through life you will have friendships that turn in to what I call 'family' ships. And having family ships could be with the ones who you have chosen and have chosen you. ... 

One thing I’ve learnt is that quality reigns supreme over quantity. It’s okay to have a group of people that you hang out with, even party with. But the sisterhood remains in the ones you can talk to and really be yourself around.
Family that you chose
I’m so appreciative that I have my sister who I consider one of my best friends. She keeps me in check. (She enjoys that too much.) And alongside a few others that’s all I need.
The highs and the lows we all face and go through are emotional all the time. And it’s sometime the support from your tribe that get you through. Not only that I look around me and the admiration I have for my team is great. I appreciate different characteristics in each one of them.
Distance and Time
This shouldn’t matter in these times. Technology takes care of that, but what I mean is no matter how far real friends are always there. And no matter how long you haven’t spoken for you can easily just start where you left off.
Over the last few years I think my circle has become even more smaller. And that’s okay. I’m a firm believer in some people are meant to be in your space for a season and a reason. And no matter what the memories and experiences is truly what life is about.

Which do you consider to be more important?
X Alonyo X

Podcasts I am Loving and You Can Too

As life slowly goes back to normal. And when I mean normal I mean commutes to work and being travelling coming with less restrictions. I find myself listening to more podcasts rather than having the time to watch them. Don't get me wrong a good YouTube video of some of the podcasts is great because you can bounce of the vibes of those involved. But some of 'tea' that you get from the ones you listen to can be inspiring and sometimes funny. Here are my top 3 podcast I am listening to or watching currently. 

5 Roundz Podcast 

Young men and women discussing a range of topics. Some more explicit than others but it  has opened the way I think and also how I approach some situations. Also it has it share of comedic value too. With the various presenters from time to time  they highlight the different views and supports open discussion. They also do spaces on twitter, which on a Saturday evening if you are not out is always a laugh. It can also go on for a few hours , such an interesting space. 

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Twitter Youtube  Instagram

Diary of a CEO

I have only just recently come to notice this particular podcast. Hosted by Steven Bartlett a Dragons Den investor. He interviews some of the most popular 'self made' millionaires and entrepreneurs. And sometimes that all I need to inspire me and my future endeavors. Him and the guests he  interviews have such a wide range of facts, tips and experience which they talk about. Any young inspiring business owner should listen to. 

Podcast Link 

The Receipts

An all women hosted podcast. Discussing a range of topics including relationship dilemmas. It feels like your listening to your friends. And whilst there are some advice giving gems they also discuss current topics too. This is the podcast that I get weird looks for, why because if I am listening to it with my in ear buds, people think I am laughing to myself. More fool them because I probably am chuckling to what's being said in the podcast. 

Podcast Link 

Are there any podcasts that you have been listening to recently? How inspiring are they? Why do you listen to them? 

X Alonyo X 


Purple: Fashion 2022

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New year sees the new trends in fashion and in anything to do with design. And I am glad that the colour of the upcoming months is purple. Whether it is the deep dark purple or a lilac or lavender hue. All purples are a great way to inject a pop of colour into your current wardrobe. 

Although I have put myself on a shopping band for a few weeks. Let me say WEEKs. I have my eye on a few things. As I continue to create a capsule wardrobe. Here are a few beautiful purple pieces that I loved so much I thought I would share with you.


Bottoms: Skirts and Trousers


Adding a pop of colour is what I need in my dark and gloomy wardrobe. So purple may be something I need for my wardrobe. 

 Are you into the purple trend? Or are you into a different colour?
X Alonyo X 
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