Thank you to everyone who has read and continues to read my blogposts, it makes me so happy to see there are so many of you from all over the world. I think of this as some pages of my diary which is opened for all to read.
This is a deep one for me on my blog. So here goes......
Its been an eye opening few weeks. From watching friendships end to starting new ventures and everything in between. I have learnt a lot about myself and I continue to do so in everything that I do. Life is about lessons and every day can bring something new and interesting.
3 Things I have learnt:
Never take on others problems.
Human nature is an amazing to be apart of. When we are in relationships especially with those we love, we tend to take on whatever it is they are going through. It effects your being, from your energy, health and other relationships. This is a hard one as I am quite an emotional at times, but I have realised that its out of my control so why invest so much in that. Being there for those people is great but never feeling like its your duty to take their problems is more what I intend to do.
Rise above it
Sometimes you are put into positions that you were not aware of and feel uncomfortable with. It may put you in a compromising position. It may increase anxiety that can make you angry. When you feel like you are getting to that boiling point, let go. RISE ABOVE IT! Again if its not your situation don't make it your problem.
At the end of the day, be true to yourself. Never do yourself a disservice and remain cool, calm and collected. Face everything with the integrity and graciousness that you know you are. Remaining true to yourself and not changing your stance on anything will be appreciated to your soul.
I have learnt a lot and continue to have so much to write about. What have you learnt about yourself over the last few months? What things do you wish to change in your life?
Xx Alonyo xX
What I am wearing:
Black Jumpsuit- New Look (Similar.)
Bag- DKNY (Similar.)
Bracelet-Links Of London
Sunglasses - River Island